When you’re asked to give a wedding toast, it’s an honor. And, it can be a lot of fun, too. But, it’s also a responsibility. After all, you’re speaking on behalf of the bride and groom and their families. So, how can you make sure your speech is a good one? Here are a few tips:
Start off strong
Begin your toast by introducing yourself, and telling the guests a little about your relationship with the bride and groom and their relationship from your perspective. For instance, you might say something like:
Hi everyone! I’m so glad you could all be here to celebrate the marriage of (Bride’s name) and (Groom’s name). (Bride) and (Groom) are such an amazing couple, and I know their marriage is going to be filled with happiness and love.
I’ve known (Bride) since we were both in middle school, and I can’t believe how much she’s grown up. She’s always been such a kind and caring person, and I know she’ll be an amazing wife. (Groom) is such a great guy, and I know he’s going to make (Bride) very happy.
I’m really excited to see what the future holds for (Bride) and (Groom), and I wish them all the best on their journey together. Thanks for being here to celebrate with us!
Consider adding some recognizable quotes
Wedding quotes about love and marriage are such a great addition to your toast. They can help to remind everyone at the wedding of the importance of love in their lives, and they can also be a beautiful way to celebrate the love between the bride and groom.
Perhaps the most popular source of quotes, at least for Christian weddings, is the bible, with verses like Corinthian 13:7: “Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful and endures through every circumstance.”
One person might quote literature, with excerpts like Emily Bronte’s “Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.” Others might look to pop culture. Consider, for instance, a quote from When Harry Met Sally, “When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”
Make it personal
When it comes to giving a wedding toast, it’s important to personalize it as much as possible. After all, this speech is for the happy couple, and it should be something from the heart. So, take the time to write something original, rather than simply reading off a piece of paper.
To get started, think about what you love most about the bride and groom. What are their unique qualities that you admire? What do you think has drawn them together? Once you have a few key points in mind, try to put them into your own words.
Be brief
Keep your speech short and sweet. You don’t want to wear out your welcome or overshadow the bride and groom. A good toast should be genuine, heartfelt, and memorable.
Make them laugh
Humor is always a great way to lighten the mood and add a little fun to any occasion. So, if you’re giving a speech, try to find a way to add a few laughs. You could tell a funny story about the bride or groom, or make a joke about the wedding itself. If you can make people laugh, they’ll be more likely to remember your toast.
In the end, the most important thing is to be genuine. The bride and groom will appreciate your effort, and they’ll definitely remember your toast long after the wedding is oveaper.
